Jing Conservation Sept 4, 2018 13:15:43 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Sept 4, 2018 13:15:43 GMT -5
Just wanted to get a discussion going with anyone else who struggles with Jing conservation. I have read the threads by SOTG on the dangers of retention and masturbation and the recommended length of time between losing the Pill, but its become something of a new struggle for me because now that I'm using the LMP/MFBH methods I am getting real results and have for the first time felt a serious energy loss after sex, I think because I finally am progressing. Which is great but at the same time, priorities have to be rethought. I got some good encouragement from a senior member that as I cultivate and advance, the energy loss will be less with orgasm. Which is great to be able to look to the future, but just have to get there first and some Jing conservation seems prudent and necessary in order to do that. I come from a recent background of dabbling in those pointless and dangerous practices of Mantak Chia and his ilk, just prior to finding MFBH. I did masturbation with retention for a few months and found it did nothing but make me super aggressive. So I had already quit it for about 2 months prior to beginning here. And then reading SOTG's as always spot on expert advice and feeling Jing "loss" for the first time, I realized my every 3 days of sex with wife was gonna have to be reevaluated and that's where I'm at now. I am very much helped by some thoughts I'd like to share and might help others, and was hoping this could be a thread where we could encourage each other as brothers in arms.
Our sexual essence, our Jing is our power and we and only we decide how we will spend it and who we will gift it to and when. Being cultivators, our Jing is more potent and special then most other men. But at the same time it is the fuel that powers our practices for meditation, martial arts, and magick. If we just thoughtless throw it away we will be nothing special anymore and all the work we do will be in vain and our progression to being the god-kings we can be, if we have strength and discipline, will be halted in its tracks and spiral back to zero. When SOTG stated that even an erection causes Jing loss, that changed a lot how I think about the world around me and in my personal responsibility to both my own energy and its use around my friends and their wives, and women in general. I now actively not so much suppress but redirect any sexual thoughts I have in general and specifically towards women I see out in the world. And its hard because the truth of the matter is the more Jing you have, the more women can sense its power, and are drawn to you. I have experienced this over the years of cultivating as I'm sure you all have.
But now that I can feel my LDT and now my MDT so strongly it encourages me to hold on to my power, my Jing to keep the process going and advancing. Its not easy, but I plan to increase the time of sex between my wife and I to the 7 days and see how I feel from that and then reevaluate again. This won't be all the time, I'm sure there will be exceptions, but in general I'm going to try to stretch things out. Please share any thoughts or experiences you like that will help another bro out. So happy to be a part of this with you all. And any women though you lucky devils don't have to worry about sexual conservation (you have your own monthly massive Jing loss to deal with), please chime in as well with any thoughts or advice.